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		<title>Comment on You don&#8217;t always have to make a point by catherine onojaife</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2012/03/14/you-dont-always-have-to-make-a-point/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[catherine onojaife]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2012 12:35:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[true to these words, sometimes we do not know we are competing with the person till we have caused so much damage.when i see faults in someone, i step back to see why i dont like the person, most times it is because they do things i cant do.
God will help us if we ask for help in that area, by telling him to help us love beyond our abilities so that we can learn from them how to do things better.
God bless you.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>true to these words, sometimes we do not know we are competing with the person till we have caused so much damage.when i see faults in someone, i step back to see why i dont like the person, most times it is because they do things i cant do.<br />
God will help us if we ask for help in that area, by telling him to help us love beyond our abilities so that we can learn from them how to do things better.<br />
God bless you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Shout! by tenderthots</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/11/16/shout/#comment-9</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 11:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A response from our friend Esther...

Very wonderful words Ufuoma. In this way the enemy will be defeated completely as we won&#039;t give him chance with our actions. And yes you&#039;re right is very significant we don&#039;t judge but shout with love.

Have a blessed Day.....with much love
Esther]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A response from our friend Esther&#8230;</p>
<p>Very wonderful words Ufuoma. In this way the enemy will be defeated completely as we won&#8217;t give him chance with our actions. And yes you&#8217;re right is very significant we don&#8217;t judge but shout with love.</p>
<p>Have a blessed Day&#8230;..with much love<br />
Esther</p>
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		<title>Comment on Shout! by tenderthots</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/11/16/shout/#comment-8</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[tenderthots]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 11:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, I know its always an issue but its something we need to help ourselves with. Its not a convenient act especially when you have to correct someone you love. But its all part of the process of becoming a disciplined child of God.

If we claim we love God, we should know that it will involve some pruning here and there to get us to be the people He has called us to be. And we should do our best to embrace whatever correction He brings &quot;straighten&quot; us, regardless of how annoying, irritating, convicting etc that makes us feel. His plans for us are the best. And so if this &quot;shouting&quot; will lead us there, so be it! Its all part of the gift of His love.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, I know its always an issue but its something we need to help ourselves with. Its not a convenient act especially when you have to correct someone you love. But its all part of the process of becoming a disciplined child of God.</p>
<p>If we claim we love God, we should know that it will involve some pruning here and there to get us to be the people He has called us to be. And we should do our best to embrace whatever correction He brings &#8220;straighten&#8221; us, regardless of how annoying, irritating, convicting etc that makes us feel. His plans for us are the best. And so if this &#8220;shouting&#8221; will lead us there, so be it! Its all part of the gift of His love.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Shout! by catherine onojaife</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/11/16/shout/#comment-7</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[catherine onojaife]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 10:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[this is me here, i always try to consider how the other person feels, or some times i say it is their life especially when they are christians,the is this &quot;do not judge&quot; attitude that comes to play in my head. i am in situations when people i call my friends who do not tell each other things so as to look holy when it is obvious that they are going down, even when you bring it up the is a ready answer for you. the truth is that God will give us wisdom to handle such matters if not we will be a castaway. this is really thought provoking. thanks.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>this is me here, i always try to consider how the other person feels, or some times i say it is their life especially when they are christians,the is this &#8220;do not judge&#8221; attitude that comes to play in my head. i am in situations when people i call my friends who do not tell each other things so as to look holy when it is obvious that they are going down, even when you bring it up the is a ready answer for you. the truth is that God will give us wisdom to handle such matters if not we will be a castaway. this is really thought provoking. thanks.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Who&#8217;s first, you or me? by catherine onojaife</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/10/11/whos-first-you-or-me/#comment-6</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[catherine onojaife]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 10:56:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[it is a good thing God is opening our eyes to see beyond ourselves, when i hear or see people going thru things it brings tears to my eyes and i say a word of prayer, but people thought see it as a sign of weakness and say one is too emotional, i guess God is trying to tell us that we should think more of others,consider their pains, love them like Christ loved us without saying every man for himself but dieing for us all. the change we seek is within us, we just need to love others more, consider them when we make decisions and the world would be a lot better.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it is a good thing God is opening our eyes to see beyond ourselves, when i hear or see people going thru things it brings tears to my eyes and i say a word of prayer, but people thought see it as a sign of weakness and say one is too emotional, i guess God is trying to tell us that we should think more of others,consider their pains, love them like Christ loved us without saying every man for himself but dieing for us all. the change we seek is within us, we just need to love others more, consider them when we make decisions and the world would be a lot better.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Circle of Survival by catherine onojaife</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/09/20/circle-of-survival/#comment-5</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[catherine onojaife]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 10:42:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well said,it is hard for some people because the person giving sometimes is younger and they feel they should be the one giving not receiving, i have learnt not to question where the answers to my prayers are coming from,God can use anybody to bless you. pride is the main reason why people dont like receiving,but as you said it humbles us and lets us know that we need each other to survive. God never makes a mistake, so also the giving aspect,some people just like to receive without giving thinking that the are the only ones in need, but what they dont know is that they become like the dead sea,acquiring things even the ones not needed, they turn out to be a dumping ground.
wisdom is profitable to direct, there is a balance in life for all things, God knows our capability.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well said,it is hard for some people because the person giving sometimes is younger and they feel they should be the one giving not receiving, i have learnt not to question where the answers to my prayers are coming from,God can use anybody to bless you. pride is the main reason why people dont like receiving,but as you said it humbles us and lets us know that we need each other to survive. God never makes a mistake, so also the giving aspect,some people just like to receive without giving thinking that the are the only ones in need, but what they dont know is that they become like the dead sea,acquiring things even the ones not needed, they turn out to be a dumping ground.<br />
wisdom is profitable to direct, there is a balance in life for all things, God knows our capability.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Whose truth is it anyway? by Ailen</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/08/04/whose-truth-is-it-anyway/#comment-4</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Ailen]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Aug 2011 13:53:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The scary thing is one can be so deceived while being 100% convicted that they are not. We need God&#039;s guidance and Godly relationships that will more easily pick up our blind-spots so as to avert falling into deception. God help us all!!!!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The scary thing is one can be so deceived while being 100% convicted that they are not. We need God&#8217;s guidance and Godly relationships that will more easily pick up our blind-spots so as to avert falling into deception. God help us all!!!!</p>
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		<title>Comment on New beginnings by catherine</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/07/19/new-beginnings/#comment-3</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[catherine]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Jul 2011 11:23:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[it is good to see this forum where we can remind ourselves that God is coming soon and  we should comfort ourselves that all these things we are seeing and hearing should not make us fear but it should compel us to daily ask God what we need to do today that will bring Him joy.
let us put a smile on His face today.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it is good to see this forum where we can remind ourselves that God is coming soon and  we should comfort ourselves that all these things we are seeing and hearing should not make us fear but it should compel us to daily ask God what we need to do today that will bring Him joy.<br />
let us put a smile on His face today.</p>
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		<title>Comment on New beginnings by Rita</title>
		<link>http://tender-thoughts.com/2011/07/19/new-beginnings/#comment-2</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rita]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 14:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Hi love! So proud of you and too be associated with something so profound. I&#039;m blessed to have been given such influential friends by God. Keep spreading the word :-)

Mwah!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi love! So proud of you and too be associated with something so profound. I&#8217;m blessed to have been given such influential friends by God. Keep spreading the word <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Mwah!</p>
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